Love is such a powerful thing. But love can be so irrevocably blind. Abusive realtionships can be of two descents; emotional & physical. Some believe that physical is the worst, but emotional is just as scarring as the physical. People no longer listen to the ones they love. They are so wrapped up in the other person. "The first cut is the deepest", many people believe this, it has even been used in songs. I believe in this as well. It's one of the hardest things to do, to either break up with your first love or to be let go by your first love. Especially if they are considered more than one first. Comfort can also be a factor in this. If you have been with this significant other for a long period of time, it makes things even harder because you are so comfortable in their presence. Your lives are so tied together, in friends, family, and schedules. Something that people need to consider is, is it truly worth it? If this person is no longer putting in the effort you need or giving you the attention you need, why stick around because of the comfort? I've heard that "It's not that easy", but it truly is. It gives you the chance to find happiness with someone else who will take the time to appreciate you. No one deserves emotional abuse, it will damage you emotionally and can seriously kill your self-esteem. It will make you think that you don't deserve better or that you won't find better and that is never true. So ladies, truly think about whether these types of guys are for you. Take the time to find a man who will always appreciate you and not give up when he knows you'll never leave. Every woman deserves so much better.
xoxo JDP
No comments:
Post a Comment